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« Reply #40 on: December 16, 2008, 11:35:08 PM »

In the end, it has been established that the feature will not be implemented and the ignore feature will remain as-is.

I think its high time for a lock and a cessation to all this forum-drama (at least in this thread)...
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« Reply #41 on: December 16, 2008, 11:42:44 PM »

While I appreciate the comment, I will respectfully disagree.

I'll lock it when it's right, and it's not ready yet.
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« Reply #42 on: December 17, 2008, 12:48:34 AM »

Ignore isn't usually used to ignore trolls... it's used to ignore people that they feel are a threat.
I thought about it, and that part I agree with.  Yes, I admit that I see you as a threat.

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Anyone who doesn't fit in the mental box of what they want someone else to be.
That does not follow from the first sentence.  There are many ways people are threatening, but intelligence very seldomly threatens people.  Abuse threatens people.  Cruelty, emotional manipulation, and violence threaten people.  People are far more threatened by bullying jocks than by nerds.  I think I'd go as far to say that nobody is threatened by nerds, no matter how correct and smart the nerds might be.

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Realistically there's no reason to have to ignore someone unless they are literally just spamming.
Or if they're just cruel, abusive, and hurtful.  If someone hits you, you can hit back, you can get beaten up, you can try to block, or you can run away.  Hitting back just ends up hurting both parties.  Getting hit is rather painful.  Blocking without hitting back is a losing proposition.  Running away is the only one of the solutions to put an end to the violence (at least temporarily).  Ignoring lets people escape the cruelty.

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It's just because people are scared of other people and the small chance that, these other people might be right... without being nice.
This is manipulation of a half-truth creating an illusion of being right.  The truth tagged onto the end lends plausibility to the lie at the beginning.  People are scared only of not-nice bullies and meanies, period.  No matter how wrong a bully is, the bully is still scary.
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« Reply #43 on: December 17, 2008, 01:15:12 AM »

The "which parts don't apply" is rather problematic.  From my point of view, I already explained how they apply, and you merely say that it doesn't without giving me any base to start from.  I feel like I'm trying to explain a rainbow to a blind man.  If I were to employ the "Emperor's New Clothes" technique, I'd jump up and down and say it's stupid to be unable to see the obvious connection.  Then, people would start finding one because, after all, they don't want to be thought of as stupid.  But, I don't want to do that.
I don't give base? Have you read my replies? Seriously ask anyone on here as to how I cover my basis with everything I say in terms of discussion. Right now the only thing I'm not doing is copypa the posts where you do the things I state, as I find no reason to.

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You're fabricating this.
You've stated this in this thread. ^^

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I do, but you seem unable or unwilling to understand how I'm directly addressing your points.
No, I understand. The point of the matter is, you're failing at doing so. (I can do one liners disagreeing and stating you are wrong too)

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Uh... aren't you just repeating my point? I'm not arguing to win an argument... I'm arguing to set people straight, and perhaps. I usually only reply to things, and usually only when someone says something incorrect. The only time in interject my opinion otherwise is when someone asks me to do something. See, it's you that don't understand my position. You act as if I do this to get my jollies out of people by winning online arguments. If that really were the case, I would be ignoring people.

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The idea is to have a discussion and exchange ideas and viewpoints.  Just because the idea isn't fully proven doesn't mean it's stupid.  "Also, deal with the notion that 'other ideas that belong to people in other states / cultures / beliefs / ideas' may be complete sane, intelligent, and sober and yet disagree with you."  Everything is based on certain backgrounds, assumptions, and values.  When you deconstruct every idea to its roots, all of them stem from a particular set of unproven and unprovable assumptions and values.
And no. it's not just to "exchange ideas". It's to exchange ideas that are legitimate. Incorrect ideas, or misled viewpoints should be "righted". It's not just accepted and patted on the head as a "possible" idea. I don't argue cultural or belief ideas. I understand culture, and religion better than most people. I follow multiple cultures, was raised Catholic, lived around Buddhists almost all my life, but am an Atheist. I have read the majority of the bible. But I usually don't discuss religion, because I hate doing so. Most people that discuss religion don't know anything about it.

I'm open to ideas and viewpoints. They just need to present them and defend them adequately. That's my point in all this. An idea is stupid unless it has a basis. Otherwise anyone can say anything and it would be accepted. That's what you're attempting to state. You should be allowed to state anything, and everyone should accept it even without proper base.  

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The first part is partly true: I don't like people using the word "stupid".  It pushes people's emotional buttons and prevents them from being as logical as they can potentially be.  I want people to think to the best of their ability and use of that word prevents that.  It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.  If you can point out flaws in an idea without pushing people's emotional buttons, then you would have my respect.  As it is, the "Emperor's New Clothes" play is a cheap trick and works against the goal of education.
Fffff... this is "cater to the needs of idiots". If people cannot handle being called stupid, they won't survive. You will be called stupid. Hell your brilliant ideas will be called stupid in work environments.

This is what everyone said "waaaah I can't handle people being negative". Too bad, grow a damned backbone.

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In this thread, there have already been many reasons for ignoring people other than being unable to defend an idea.  You haven't addressed or acknowledged any of them.
No, I have. Because it's all encompassing. I even said what I think is the only legitimate reason for ignoring someone.

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You are far more likely to get it if you refrain from abusing people.  If you abuse people, this works against getting the logic as to why.  Calling people stupid is a self-fulfilling prophesy.  If you honestly don't want people to be logical, don't do something to reduce the probability of them being logical.
HA... like others have said, grow a backbone. If you cannot support an idea merely because someone put it down, you won't survive. It's not logical to act like an idiot and not support your idea because someone put it down. Welcome to real life. It doesn't CATER to them, but it hardly forces them not to. It's not logical at all.

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I do, and I'm apparently overly wordy when doing so.  It's a lose-lose situation.  If I don't explain my concepts thoroughly in the first place, I get attacked.  If I do explain thoroughly, then people don't read what I say.
I don't give a crap, personally, if you're wordy. With you, the issue is you miss HUGE POINTS. You seem to ignore logic and assume that things will work. You want me to refer to your little race one? Tell me something. How will you force a racist person, to breed with someone who is of a different race? Here's another idea to accompany your mixed-race one as well. If everyone was dead... there would be no racism. If Hitler succeeded... there will be no racism. I can support all of these just as well, if not better than you supported yours as well. Because I would ignore the huge logical gap of "how we reach this point". This is what makes the idea incredibly stupid. Want to go on the basis of communism. This is the same line of logic you are pursuing. An idea that works, if amazing steps and bounds of impossibility can be done to reach the end goal. After that end-goal, an assumption that EVERYONE will follow the base principle must them also be made so that the idea will work.

That is how logic works, and you are ignoring it. You never addressed ANY of my points on this in those threads, and I line item'd almost every single point you made stating how it cannot work, and how the idea in itself is stupid. You just automatically assume that if people don't agree with your idea then, they aren't reading what you say? So let's say, you are explaining your idea perfectly. That doesn't mean your idea has huge logic gaps within them. It doesn't mean that your idea is flawless and there are reasons as to why your idea is stupid. That doesn't mean people agree with your idea because it goes against so many morals that it's painful.

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You only prove that you are unable to see why, no matter how simply I try to explain things.
See above.

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You're basing your response on a comment that wasn't even meant to apply to you.
No, it wasn't BASED on that. That was just one thing I addressed. Why are you assuming that because I said that, none of what I said applies?

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It's neither and both.  Seeing shades of gray means not jumping to opposite ends.  It's accepting that neither end is fully correct and that what is "right" and "logical" varies depending on the exact circumstances.
I don't jump to opposite ends. I don't disagree with an idea just because of what the idea is, but rather what it involves. You don't get this point...

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There's the possibility that you merely don't have the background or the base value to see the logic.
Or maybe I do, and know more about it than you do?

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The problem is that the position is perfectly logical.  If there are no coherent races, then it's is logical that there can be no racism (specifically "racism" in the true, strict sense of the word, not the sloppier, more general sense of "discrimination" or "bigotry").  However, humans are not logical (unless they're sloppy enough to confuse "logic" with "emotional").  I admit that I'm rather weak on "emotional sense".  I tend to think of humans as more logical than they are.
See my above part about this.

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intelligence very seldomly threatens people
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Oh man... you have no social understandings if you state this. The entire idea of picking and bullying nerds is because they are threatened by intelligence. Not just threatened, but jealous. So unless you're disagreeing with the social history of the world...
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« Reply #44 on: December 17, 2008, 04:11:08 AM »

I don't give base? Have you read my replies?
Yes, I've read your replies, and you don't give me a base to start explaining from.

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Seriously ask anyone on here as to how I cover my basis with everything I say in terms of discussion.
That doesn't give me a base.

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Right now the only thing I'm not doing is copypa the posts where you do the things I state, as I find no reason to.
So, still no base.

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Her replies to me are filled with how I'm wrong, because I said her idea is stupid.
You're fabricating this.
If you believe I did so, you are misinterpreting something.  Or, you may be constructing a half-truth out of something.

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Uh... aren't you just repeating my point?
No, I'm repeating sysadmin.  (Addressed in next paragraph.)

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I'm not arguing to win an argument... I'm arguing to set people straight
How is "setting people straight" any different from winning an argument?

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I usually only reply to things, and usually only when someone says something incorrect.
Someone being incorrect is often only an opinion.  Very few things are fully "correct" or "incorrect" (ie "white" or "black").  Most things are shades of gray.

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The only time in interject my opinion otherwise is when someone asks me to do something.
Unless you're dealing with artificial definitions or historical facts, most assertions of correctness are opinions at one level or another.  Even artificial definitions and historical facts can be debated.

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See, it's you that don't understand my position. You act as if I do this to get my jollies out of people by winning online arguments. If that really were the case, I would be ignoring people.
No, it is logically not possible to win an argument by ignoring people.  You cannot win if you don't play.  You said that you are in it to "set people straight".  I see no difference between "setting people straight" and "winning the argument".

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And no. it's not just to "exchange ideas". It's to exchange ideas that are legitimate. Incorrect ideas, or misled viewpoints should be "righted".
You cannot know if an idea is legitimate or incorrect if you immediately decide it's stupid without giving it a chance.  You immediately called me stupid and tried to "set me straight" for saying that there's no gold backing up paper money, but that's a historical fact, so you can actually be wrong about that.

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a "possible" idea.
I think it's useful to keep in mind and listen to idealistic possibilities.  It gives people a goal to strive for.  I think it's good to believe in the possibility of a better future.  Sure, we don't know how to get from our current world to one where there are so many resources that money isn't a problem, but it's a nice concept, and I think it's worth discussing.  Over time, if the conversation keeps coming up, if enough people keep an open enough mind about it to exchange possibilities, maybe someone would figure it out.  People dared to dream that slavery would go away, that women would be full members of society, that we can instantly communicate with each other from the other side of the world, and over time, things came together, and it has all happened.  Going back in time and telling people about such things would be met by lots of people who scoff at the ideas as stupid.  I imagine a lot of slave owners probably believed that the economy would collapse or something if they didn't have slaves.

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Otherwise anyone can say anything and it would be accepted. That's what you're attempting to state.
No, that's only half true.  Anyone can say anything, and it should be worthy of being discussed respectfully.  Having a discussion about a topic isn't the same thing as accepting the ideas.  Giving the ideas a chance doesn't imply accepting them either.  Here we go with the black/reject and white/accept again.  There are shades of gray in just giving the ideas a chance.  I wasn't thinking of you when I made the black-and-white accusation, but I guess it does apply.

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The first part is partly true: I don't like people using the word "stupid".  It pushes people's emotional buttons and prevents them from being as logical as they can potentially be.  I want people to think to the best of their ability and use of that word prevents that.  It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.  If you can point out flaws in an idea without pushing people's emotional buttons, then you would have my respect.  As it is, the "Emperor's New Clothes" play is a cheap trick and works against the goal of education.
Fffff... this is "cater to the needs of idiots".
No, it's merely the most efficient way to serve my goal, which is to get people to think more and reach their maximum intellectual and creative potential.  The intention is not for the purpose of anybody else's needs: this behavior is about my wants.  If the environment nurtures people to be as smart as they can be, it's likely to make my life better too.

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If people cannot handle being called stupid, they won't survive.
The problem is that people do survive being called stupid, but it warps them.  They survive, but the resulting world becomes a sad, miserable place to live.

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Hell your brilliant ideas will be called stupid in work environments.
I'm successful enough that I have the luxury of refusing jobs in which I would have to work with children.  Adults don't call each other stupid, and I have a particularly charmed work life with wonderful coworkers.  Ideas are discussed only upon their technical merits.  I have not heard any of my coworkers use the word "stupid" at all since James was laid off three years ago, partly for creating a hostile work environment.  We definitely still have plenty of disagreements, and some ideas turn out to be better than others, but we consider all contributions and debate them respectfully.  I've never been called stupid at work, and I've been working since I was 14.

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This is what everyone said "waaaah I can't handle people being negative". Too bad, grow a damned backbone.
Is there any point to being negative?  And, if you're directing the comment at me, yes, I grew a backbone.  I'm now doing my best to stand up for the people being bullied.  I'm standing up to reduce hostility in the environment by explaining why people shouldn't be so hostile.

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In this thread, there have already been many reasons for ignoring people other than being unable to defend an idea.  You haven't addressed or acknowledged any of them.
No, I have. Because it's all encompassing. I even said what I think is the only legitimate reason for ignoring someone.
You might've said what you think the only legitimate reason for ignoring someone is, but people have refuted your point after that.  That point has been addressed.  People click ignore to run away from bullies, not to run away from the truth.

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You are far more likely to get it if you refrain from abusing people.  If you abuse people, this works against getting the logic as to why.  Calling people stupid is a self-fulfilling prophesy.  If you honestly don't want people to be logical, don't do something to reduce the probability of them being logical.
HA... like others have said, grow a backbone. If you cannot support an idea merely because someone put it down, you won't survive.
This isn't about me.  You ignored the point that I'm trying to make:  You claim you want people to be logical, but you do things to make them less so.  So, logically, calling people stupid is more important to you than getting other people to be more logical.

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It's not logical to act like an idiot and not support your idea because someone put it down. Welcome to real life.
I agree with that.  However, it is also real life that most people are less logical if you put them down, and you know this.  If you don't want people to be idiots, why are you doing things to make them that way?  You still haven't addressed the question of why, if you truly want people to be smarter, don't you help them do so, especially when doing something as simplistic as avoiding certain meaningless words would go a long way towards helping?

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I don't give a crap, personally, if you're wordy.
However, other people do.

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With you, the issue is you miss HUGE POINTS. You seem to ignore logic and assume that things will work.
No, I don't assume things will work.  I construct a web of logic explaining why they work.  What you're using is not logic.

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You want me to refer to your little race one? Tell me something. How will you force a racist person, to breed with someone who is of a different race?
Interbreeding doesn't require force at all.  Furthermore, not that much of the population has to mingle in order to break down the races.  I'm just saying that the breakdown of the races will happen due to ease of global communication and travel.  Nobody has to make it happen.  Evolution already applies a very subtle subconscious preference for genetic diversity over genetic inbreeding.  I already said this.  People will mingle by choice.  This "idea" is not a plan of action, and nobody has to believe me.  It's just a glimpse of the future.  The days of race and racism are numbered.

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Here's another idea to accompany your mixed-race one as well. If everyone was dead... there would be no racism.
I agree with that.

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Because I would ignore the huge logical gap of "how we reach this point".
Sun going supernova would do it quite nicely.  There is no logical gap here.  No effort or plan of action required.  It's just a glimpse of the future.

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This is what makes the idea incredibly stupid.
Would it help if you just called it a glimpse of the future rather than an "idea"?  I'm not proposing anything be done.  I just want people to do the thought exercise, see the future free of racism, and be more open to accepting that future.  I think it helps make the future come sooner.

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Want to go on the basis of communism. This is the same line of logic you are pursuing. An idea that works, if amazing steps and bounds of impossibility can be done to reach the end goal.
"Communism" is another ambiguous word.  I don't know which aspects of communism are included in your use of the term.

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After that end-goal, an assumption that EVERYONE will follow the base principle must them also be made so that the idea will work.
Not everybody has to interbreed in order to destroy the racial coherence enough to get rid of racism.

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That is how logic works, and you are ignoring it.
Now you're just doing what you thought it was I was doing.  You seem to have used a very poorly explained analogy to communism in order to make a point about race or something.  You did not provide me much of a basis of what you mean by communism to start addressing whatever your point was.

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You never addressed ANY of my points on this in those threads
I pre-addressed them, or I addressed them when responding to other people.

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I line item'd almost every single point you made stating how it cannot work
I was trying to avoid line-iteming because ewu said not to.  Lose-lose situation again.  I believe I have reached the point of it being logically impossible to please anybody.

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You just automatically assume that if people don't agree with your idea then, they aren't reading what you say?
No, I assume that, if I've already pre-addressed their points, then they aren't reading or aren't understanding what I tried to say.

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So let's say, you are explaining your idea perfectly.
That is impossible.  There is just no humanly possible way to explain ideas perfectly.  I have to strike a balance between time pressures and the readers' tolerance.  I just explain the best I can in the circumstances I have.  I know I can never explain any idea well enough, much less "perfectly".

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That doesn't mean your idea has huge logic gaps within them.
Any attempt to explain any idea on anybody's part will always have huge gaps.  Language is very limited, and thoughts are just fundamentally too vast and complex to fit.  This is another reason why it's bad to leap to the conclusion that ideas are "stupid" too quickly.  Nobody can conceivably crowd any full-fledged fully supported thought into the tolerance of another person's attention span, although it's possible to come close if people have dealt with each other a lot and have developed enough of a shared vocabulary and background.

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Why are you assuming that because I said that, none of what I said applies?
I didn't.  I wouldn't have taken the time to address all those previous points if I assumed that none of it applies.

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It's neither and both.  Seeing shades of gray means not jumping to opposite ends.  It's accepting that neither end is fully correct and that what is "right" and "logical" varies depending on the exact circumstances.
I don't jump to opposite ends.
You seem to believe that things are right or they're wrong (or "stupid" in your words).  "Right" and "wrong"/"stupid" are opposite ends.  Insisting that things that aren't "right" must be "stupid" is jumping to opposite ends.  When I say "shades of gray", I'm referring to the concept that things are neither right nor wrong.

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I don't disagree with an idea just because of what the idea is, but rather what it involves. You don't get this point...
I get that you like supported ideas.  I'm supporting my ideas, but you don't give any indication of trying to understand them.  If you disagree, then that's fine, and it's your right.  But, you're not even close enough to addressing the points that I see it as disagreement.  We have fundamentally different base universes and vocabularies.  A lot of what you say simply doesn't make any sense to me in the context I thought I provided.  And often, you're not even close enough to addressing what I think I've said that I even know how to respond.

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There's the possibility that you merely don't have the background or the base value to see the logic.
Or maybe I do, and know more about it than you do?
If that is the case, then why can't you explain it in a way that I understand that you get it?  I'm very wordy, so I give you lots of ammo.  If you know more about it, it should be easy for you to rephrase what you know in terms of the vocabulary I'm using.  I'm not even using offensive vocabulary.  I don't explain things in terms of your vocabulary because I generally prefer to not use inherently abusive terms.

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intelligence very seldomly threatens people
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA Oh man... you have no social understandings if you state this. The entire idea of picking and bullying nerds is because they are threatened by intelligence.
OK, you're using a different variety of "threatened", but I can see your point.  However, as you said, the typical reaction when being threatened by a nerd is to pick on them, bully them, and beat them up, not to run away from them.  People tend to run away when being threatened by bullies.  They tend to not run away when threatened by intelligence.  My overall point still stands: the ignore button is to run away from abuse, not intelligence.  (By the way, while I see the point, I disagree that the jocks even capable of sufficiently recognizing the nerds' intelligence enough to be threatened by it.  The jocks just see the nerds as weird and different, and that's why they pick on nerds.  People get picked on just because they're different and not fitting in.  Bullies don't have to recognize the victims as intelligent to pick on them.)

*sigh*  I apologize for the length of this, but I think it was necessary.  Long, point-by-point responses for PyronIkari.  Short, whole-concept responses for ewu.  Try to keep length down in general for everybody else.  Trying...  Not at all easy.
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« Reply #45 on: December 17, 2008, 08:19:23 AM »

*gasp* some of those were only one sentence answers rather than exhaustive diatribes....

An argument is much more effective if it is a single contiguous line of logic. Yes, one must deconstruct what the other has said, but u gotta reconstruct it. Quality not quantity.....by replying to short excepts of what the other has said BOTH of you are coming off as petty little children. Grow up, construct an argument, and move on.
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« Reply #46 on: December 17, 2008, 01:17:21 PM »

Yes, one must deconstruct what the other has said, but u gotta reconstruct it.
General construction: PyronIkari does not address what I'm saying in any coherent way.  For example, he still doesn't seem to understand what I mean by "shades of gray".  He uses cheap tricks such as half-truths and bullying to make others think he does.  He does not cite sources and only gives vague references that don't explain anything in the context, but he's exempt from supporting his claims in the eyes of others by creating a hostile environment in which people undergo the "Emperor's New Clothes" phenomenon.  He managed to stumble upon a fascinating set of psychological manipulation.  He is right about some things, but he's right in a way that still misses the point entirely.  Any attempts to get back to the point is prevented by sheer bullying and refusal to go back there.

For example, take the nerds vs. bullying jocks discussion.  Instead of using the context to understand how the point might be valid (that people run away from bullies, not nerds), he picked apart the wording and used abusive redirection to make people think he invalidated the point.  The idea that jocks might pick on nerds because the jocks are feeling threatened by the nerds is an interesting one, and I think it's worth discussion, but it doesn't make my original point any less valid.  However, by using redirection based in abuse and derision, he prevents others from ever seeing the valid parts and discourages people from wanting to deal with him.  This all has the net effect of tricking people into believing him.

Earlier, in other threads, I probably did avoid addressing some of his points because I subconsciously recognized them to be traps, but now that I consciously realize what I was doing and why.  Due to the abuse, it's not fun to deal with him, and an Internet forum is recreation.  The more intelligent and mature people stop addressing PyronIkari because, whether or not they are made to feel bad, the abuse still makes it not fun and therefore not worth their time.  (This goes back to the ignore button being a good thing and that people use it for reasons other than being afraid that the ignored person might have a point.)

However, backing out because is no longer fun means that other readers think the silence means PyronIkari is right.  PyronIkari sees to this by repeatedly pointing out that his point hasn't been addressed, and he fabricates an assertion that the lack of rebuttal means he's right.  So, I've decided to do something that isn't fun in order to break the cycle and try to improve the environment here.  I'm partly doing this because, if I can help people from feeling abused here, I wouldn't feel so bad about all the time and money I wasted on Fanime.  (Fanime is by fans, for fans, and I don't want to support a convention containing survivors of abuse.  Abuse warps people.)

To accomplish my goal, I don't need to fix PyronIkari -- a lone jerk isn't a threat.  However, I do need to break the social support he has.  I need to make other people see that, even if he's right, it's bad for the environment to support the way he goes about it.  Fanime is recreation.  It's not supposed to be work.  People shouldn't have to "deal with life" or "grow a backbone" to enjoy Fanime.  Part of anime and entertainment is relief from such things.  People shouldn't sound so apologetic and border-line scared when they ask if they can share food with friends.  It's supposed to be a fun place where people go to relax and have fun.  Over time, watching what goes on here, I've slowly come to the conclusion that, for the health of any recreational organization, given what such things are and what they do for people, it's far more important to be nice than be right.  Abuse begets abuse, especially when it's so psychologically manipulative and has so much support.

Whether the manipulation is recognized and intentional or not, it still exists.  I concede that the color-blind might be the most racist, but that implies that the abuse-blind and manipulation-blind can be the most abusive and most manipulative.  And, if you're not abuse-blind, I'd like to point out your own assertion that evil succeeds because good men do nothing.  I fully understand and accept why good men do nothing, and I still respect good men doing nothing.  Sometimes, there just isn't a good solution.  However, I think the thought exercise is still good.  I believe that good men who are thinking about a problem but do nothing are still better than good men who are not thinking about the problem because the ones thinking about the problem may eventually come up with a solution and are more likely to recognize opportunities to create solutions when the time is right and when things fall into place.

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Thank you.  I agree.  However, this is what it takes to be understood.  If an adult talks to a child using adult language, constructs, and concepts, then the child isn't going to understand.  (That applies no matter which one of us you consider to normally be more of a child.)  In this case, PyronIkari seems to be very vocal about jumping up and down about how points don't apply when they're not addressed in a way he likes.  Also, I thought it was just polite to address PyronIkari on his terms instead of talking past him to manipulate other readers.


I again utterly fail at trying to keep this short.   Cry   I don't know how to shorten this without leaving very many loose ends that can be trivially attacked.  I repeatedly tried to going back and trimming some things out, but then I see more loose ends that can use shoring up, and the post keeps getting longer every time I try to cut it down.  I at least tried to break up the long paragraphs a bit, but my attempts to fix the length are making it worse.  I'm sorry.   Cry  I'm trying to be brief and trying for more quality over quantity, but I don't seem able to rise to your pre-law level of impact.  Cry
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« Reply #47 on: December 17, 2008, 06:04:25 PM »

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Wow... that entire post was basically how I'm stupid and I don't understand anything you say, as you assume I can't comprehend basics in anything.

Sorry to break it to you, but that's not the case. The nerds vs. bully thing... I did invalidate the point. I addressed what you wrote completely. YOU failed to interpret what YOU meant if you meant anything more than just "intelligence seldom threatens people". You never said a damned thing about how they felt threatened nor how the receiver reacts. However, if you are going to open up that box... you're going to get into a completely different sociological argument about capabilities. I suggest you not do that, because you are still wrong under the very reasoning you are citing. Gray matters. That's what "threatening is". Now wait a second, you're stating *I* don't understand what a gray matter is, when you are accusing me of stating something off base and that's a half-truth.

Do you understand that there are hundreds of ways to feel threatened and hundreds of ways to deal with them? If we're talking logically here, people respond to threats differently... Many that feel inferior try to make themselves feel better by attempting to prove they are better in a different aspect. This is the basis of bullying nerds. They feel if they prove they are more superior in physical strength, in social status, etc. etc. etc. that they are indeed better than the nerd.

So once more, it completely applied, and completely invalidated your point. People are intimidated, and even threatened by intelligence.

Should I further push this, even on the internet? You get into an argument about a subject, you prove someone wrong, they state "Man you're a loser, I bet you're a virgin". Or something along those lines. That's the exact same basis.

If you're going to even ATTEMPT to argue psychological trains of reasoning within people, then you better have a damn good background in dealing with people about this very subject. Book learning is really only a base for possibilities and for terminology.

I don't get why you boast so much? You speak as if you're some genius that understands social basis in individuals beyond a level that others can comprehend. Here's a good reflection for you. I put people and ideas down, right? I like to pick apart peoples comments and explain how flawed they are. You seem to only believe I do so in half truths(which isn't really the case but for the sake of argument). You on the other hand, are the opposite for yourself. You don't even think for a second that there are holes or flaws in your comments. You don't think anyone else understands you if they even question what you say, and you speak as if you are an expert in whatever you speak about. You are exactly what you accuse me of, you just do it in a different way. I tell others how their ideas are wrong. You talk down to everyone and state that everyone should listen to your base idea because it is great, and if they don't understand it, they are stupid for not understanding it.

The only difference is the wording.

You think citing a theory, or a basis, automatically means it applies? Half of the stuff you cite doesn't even apply to the situation, it just has a similar base. It makes me think you took a few psych courses in your time, but never really studied psych in depth, since this is extremely common in that kind of person.

I don't cite things that are common sense.

Though I do find it funny that you basically call me a manipulative tyrant that is persuading the masses to follow my example and destroy everyone. I'm not manipulative, nor am I abusive. I COULD be abusive, which is nothing close to this. I'm just honest. Which in itself seems to be a huge flaw everywhere.

Back to the irony of this. You basically call me stupid. You call everyone that listens to me, stupid. You said that everyone that even thinks that how I post is in the least way good is stupid, AND YOU MUST SAVE THEM.

I hope you know, you just insulted a good number of staff members. I hope you know you insulted a good number of staff members from other conventions as well. Not even including the general public and all that.

So you're a hypocrite. You are everything you accuse me of being. You have insulted your way to sound good. You are abusing the very people you say you're helping. The only difference is, I don't care about that stuff. I care about posting something that's worth reading, and isn't false.

The only thing you got sorta right about me, was that I like drawing things out and baiting out certain replies, because I like watching people contradict themselves in the hope that they realize they contradict themselves causing everything they said to fall apart, which sometimes leads to their understanding of how they're wrong about something.

EWU: the problem with linear logic is that, it takes too much time in text. A normal post like this takes me somewhere around 10 minutes or so if I'm only doing the post to completely arrange it would take another 10. I prefer not to see things as "a debate" with rules and all that crap. Just talking. So I type as I would talk.
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« Reply #48 on: December 18, 2008, 02:21:15 AM »

Wow... that entire post was basically how I'm stupid and I don't understand anything you say, as you assume I can't comprehend basics in anything.
I didn't say you can't.  I only said you give no indication of it.  Furthermore, not understanding does not make you necessarily stupid.  I think you at least have a different background.  People have different backgrounds and experiences and universes, so a problem in communicating and comprehending each other doesn't necessarily stem from any lack of intelligence but a lack of shared background and vocabulary.

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Do you understand that there are hundreds of ways to feel threatened and hundreds of ways to deal with them?
I already said that you're using a different variety of "threat" than what I originally had in mind.  Why are you asking whether I understand something when I said it first?

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Many that feel inferior try to make themselves feel better by attempting to prove they are better in a different aspect. This is the basis of bullying nerds.
You just implied that there are many bases for bullying nerds.  Some children burn ants under a microscope and pull wings off of butterflies.  That doesn't mean that they necessarily feel inferior to the ants or butterflies.  They might just find it entertaining, or they might just be curious and unaware of the implications of what they're doing.  Ants and butterflies are just so different that it's hard to make any sort of comparison like "inferior" or not.  Likewise, jocks don't have to feel inferior to the nerds to feel threatened.

But we've strayed very far from the point.  The point is that I agreed with you that one use of the ignore button is to run away from threats.  It's just that I think the threat is highly unlikely to be of an intellectual nature.  Part of this is because, if the person were actually less intelligent, they would have difficulties recognizing superior intelligence enough to be threatened by it anyways.

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Should I further push [different tactics dealing with different threats], even on the internet? You get into an argument about a subject, you prove someone wrong, they state "Man you're a loser, I bet you're a virgin". Or something along those lines. That's the exact same basis.
Yes, exactly.  As another example, they might just say, "Man, that's stupid.  In fact, that was so stupid that I can't be bothered to pull up references why because you won't understand them".  Same thing.  Neither truly address the point.

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If you're going to even ATTEMPT to argue psychological trains of reasoning within people, then you better have a damn good background in dealing with people about this very subject.
I'm here doing this partly to get that background.  I'm proposing ideas, putting them out there, bouncing them off of other people.  They're just ideas.  Furthermore, while I will try to explain why I think what I do, I do not intentionally abuse those who try to give me suggestions.  I do not think people are stupid for disagreeing with me.  I will lay out what I think as much as I can so people have lots of exposure to my background and vocabulary to show me where things are flawed.

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I don't get why you boast so much? You speak as if you're some genius that understands social basis in individuals beyond a level that others can comprehend.
I'm sorry, but I wasn't aware that I came off that way, and I don't understand why people would think that.  What did I say that sounded like boasting?  I don't intentionally try to speak like a genius (I wouldn't even know what a genius would sound like), and I did already say (in the context of why I'm such a failure at using fewer words) that I see tons of flaws and weaknesses in what I'm saying (which is why I keep getting more verbose trying to cover them).  I apologize if I insulted the staff here, but that was not my intention at all.  Although... from the reactions of other people, I very much doubt that I sound like a genius to anybody else here.  Quite the contrary, in fact.

For example, ewu said I sound like a child, and I have to admit it often fits.  If a child tells someone else, "Hey!  Look there!  That sky thing!  It's blue!", it's because the child thought it was a neat revelation, not because the child thought the people around don't already know.  The psychological thing is new to me, and I was partly putting the ideas out there like a child might with a new discovery.  Or, I was probably more putting my ideas out there more like an intimidated nerdy child in a hostile environment might in order to try to get feedback while trying to avoid being yelled at for being stupid: "This thing is called blue, right?  And that sky?  It looks like this thing, doesn't it?  So, that means the sky is blue, right?"  I've also had years of being told to stop being a teacher's pet, so I dropped the hedge words long ago and ended up with "This is blue.  The sky looks like this.  This means the sky is blue."  I fully believe that others can not only comprehend but also be able to provide good feedback about my thought process.  It's partly why I put things out there.

I'm just sharing discoveries and analogies that I thought were interesting.  I don't mean to insult the people I'm sharing it with.  I also never said or meant to imply that I studied psychology in depth.  I said earlier that I wish I had time to, and I believe that everybody else here has just as much -- or more -- background in order to critically, intellectually, and logically evaluate what I've asserted if it's worth their time.  I think it's an interesting topic, and I do want to learn.

I honestly don't believe the other people here are stupid, but I'm just limited by my own background.  When ideas are new to me, I like bouncing them around.  I explain them as best I can so people could see holes in them.  (Pointing out holes in my background doesn't say anything about holes in my thought process.  I already know the holes in my background.)

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You think citing a theory, or a basis, automatically means it applies? Half of the stuff you cite doesn't even apply to the situation, it just has a similar base.
I choose cites because I think they directly apply.  URLs I copy-paste tend to say a lot of things, and sometimes, only part of the cited links apply.

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It makes me think you [...] never really studied psych in depth
Maybe what made you think that I "never really studied psyche in depth" is the fact that I already implied this back at the bottom of Reply #15?  This isn't some brilliant deduction on your part.  This is something I pretty much already told everybody.  Anybody who cares about my psychological background already knows that they have as much of a background in it as I do.

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I don't cite things that are common sense.
"Common sense" is often flawed, limited, and misguided.  "Common sense" is a very blunt instrument at best, and it's a very poor tool for testing out new ideas.

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I'm not manipulative, nor am I abusive.
Yes, I pre-addressed that.  "Whether the manipulation is recognized and intentional or not, it still exists.  I concede that the color-blind might be the most racist, but that implies that the abuse-blind and manipulation-blind can be the most abusive and most manipulative."

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You have insulted your way to sound good.
That sentence seems to be missing something.  In any case, if I cared at all about sounding or looking good, I would've simply not responded to anything you said.  I knew I wasn't going to sound/look good the second I responded to you.

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You are abusing the very people you say you're helping. The only difference is, I don't care about that stuff. I care about posting something that's worth reading, and isn't false.
From my point of view, you're insulting your readers if you think it's "worth reading" for them to listen to you repeatedly remind them that I was ignoring you or tell them again that I have no in-depth background in psychology when I already said so.  If you were interested in the logic, the logic on the page is the same no matter who I am.  You tried to dissolve all my psychological ideas by simply saying that I don't have a background in psychology.  This tactic is an "ad hominem" fallacy.  The points themselves are not invalidated merely because of some characteristics (or lack thereof) of the person making them.

In here and in Serious Business, I've been posting to try out ideas and hammer out opinions.  If people believe my imperfect ideas are not worth reading, I respect that.  And now, there's even a great ignore feature that will help them skip past everything I post.  I won't be offended if it's used, and I won't waste (even more) space by commenting about being ignored.

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The only thing you got sorta right about me, was that I like drawing things out and baiting out certain replies, because I like watching people contradict themselves in the hope that they realize they contradict themselves causing everything they said to fall apart, which sometimes leads to their understanding of how they're wrong about something.
Contradicting myself doesn't make what I say fall apart.  I recognize that I'm human, and as a human, I am fundamentally flawed, imperfect, and often wrong about many things.  However, I grow, I learn, I change.  I allow myself to make mistakes because that's how I become better.  I also allow others to make mistakes too.  Making mistakes doesn't mean people are stupid.  It doesn't mean that people should shut up until their ideas spring fully fledged and flawless onto the page.  I put imperfect ideas out there partly so they can get hammered on and refined.  Or scrapped as necessary.  I'm not afraid of being wrong.  I knew ahead of time that there's a very high probability that responding to you was the wrong thing to do, but I had a personal question that I needed to answer, and this was the best way to do it.

Did the tactic you're trying work on you?  Did being wrong about the continued existence of gold-backed currency make everything you said fall apart?  Did it lead you to understand that you're wrong?  It certainly doesn't seem like it.  Humans are resilient creatures.  A mere contradiction isn't going to make things "fall apart".


It's still way too long, but I snipped six rather large paragraphs out of the above plus a few sentences and several small words here and there...  ^_^;
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« Reply #49 on: December 18, 2008, 03:28:06 AM »

Oh geez.  I just re-read what I wrote.  I'm sorry.  I guess I really trim the wrong things when trying to be brief.

However, I think the thought exercise is still good.  I believe that good thinking men who do nothing are still better than good non-thinking men who do nothing because the thinking ones may eventually come up with a solution and are more likely to recognize opportunities to create solutions when the time is right and when things fall into place.
Sorry. I do assume all men are thinking about something.  By "thinking men", I meant men who are thinking about certain desirable ideals specifically.

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If I address things in a way PyronIkari understands, you don't get the point.  If I address things in a way you understand, PyronIkari doesn't get the point.
Geez, that was very far off.  I guess I've been here way too long.  (Abuse begets abuse...)  What I was thinking is merely that there is no way of phrasing things to please both parties.

I went back and modified the post.

Sorry...

But this does reinforce how insidious the hostile environment is.  I didn't mean to do it, and I didn't know I was doing it.
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« Reply #50 on: December 18, 2008, 07:29:44 AM »

But this does reinforce how insidious the hostile environment is.  I didn't mean to do it, and I didn't know I was doing it.

And that leads to a very important question: Does a board about an anime fan convention really need a hostile environment to begin with?
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« Reply #51 on: December 18, 2008, 11:17:03 AM »

We really do not need it and it doesn't contribute anything but a elitist attitude and
douche nozzleness.  It defeat the purpose of fanime being fan friendly, unless this perception recently changed about fanime this year? I sure hope not..

PI/Mikey is the Simon Cowell of the fanimecon forums.

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But this does reinforce how insidious the hostile environment is.  I didn't mean to do it, and I didn't know I was doing it.

And that leads to a very important question: Does a board about an anime fan convention really need a hostile environment to begin with?

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« Reply #52 on: December 18, 2008, 12:10:46 PM »

And that leads to a very important question: Does a board about an anime fan convention really need a hostile environment to begin with?

Well, I wouldn't get to the generalities.  99% of the boards are not combative.  Heck, aside from Serious Business, actual debate is limited to a small handful of threads.

I really don't see some sort of hideous problem.  The exception are those who participate in Serious Business, then apply that same debating mentality to the rest of the forums.  That won't work, but I think people will pick up on that in time.
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« Reply #53 on: December 18, 2008, 12:21:27 PM »

(the following section is not singling out any single person, but a larger summary of most threads I see)

Fundamentally, the issue boils down to "how to debate with someone, on the internet".
The base topic is something like:
   * Contention 1: A is true.

Or something larger:
   * Contention 1: A is true.
   * Contention 2: If A then B.
   * Conclusion: Therefore, B is true.

This is a complete and valid discussion which introduces either 1 or 3 talking points.  Someone may feel that Contention 1 is wrong, or that Contention 2 is incomplete, or something else.  This may make the chain invalid (not proving something is true/false, just making the chain broken), or it might lead to a counterclaim (B is false, and here's why).

The problem is that some people hate the concept of someone else disagreeing with them.  So they write posts like this:
   * Contention 1: A is true.
   * Contention 2: If A then B.
   * Conclusion: Therefore, B is true.
   * Supporting Point 1: Contention 1 is true for reason C.
   * Supporting Point 2: Reason C is true because of Reason D.
   * Supporting Point 3: Contention 2 is true because of this citation here.
   * Supporting Point 4: That citation in 3 is repeated by this other good sources.
   * Supporting Point 5: Oh, B is also true for reasons E, F, and G.

This is still a valid argument, and might actually be correct.  But its a wall of text.  Someone with experience in the area of D may chime in, but that's somewhat lost in the fray.  Someone else who wants to keep the discussion light might make a joke about F. 

Someone who wants to actually try the line-by-line might not be interested in all eight lines, and only replies to B, E, and G.  Then they're accused for not bringing up A, C, and Q.  And so on.

Of course, there are people who are outright contradictory, and will find a way to invalidate or wrongify C1, C2, Conclusion, SP1, SP2, SP3, SP4, SP5, A, B, C, D, E, F, and G.  They won't actually agree on anything, because that's conciliatory.   And so you get another wall of text.   And it's all downhill from there.

(note: if you feel that the previous section doesn't exactly match your posting style, yep, you're right.  it probably doesn't.  you don't need to post and tell me that).


Some other internet debates work out this way:
   * Post 1.  A is true.  If A then B.  Therefore B is true.
   * Post 2.  "If A then B" isn't true, for these reasons.
   * Post 3.  Sure it is, here's other reasons.
   * Post 4.  Are you sure A is true?  I read that A is only sometimes true.
This is a valid internet debate, and there is a disagreement in every post.  Yet they're all manageable.


Yet, 80% of the discussions on this board are:
   * Post 1: A is good.
   * Post 2: I like A too.
   * Post 3: I don't really like A, but I like B.
   * Post 4: Oh yeah, B is awesome.
   * Post 5: A sucks ass, and you're stupid for liking it.
   * Post 6: Yes, but I like it anyway.
Technically, this isn't a logical debate.  This is fine.


I'm okay with permitting all three types of discussions on the forums as a whole.  But some people will get more mileage out of the latter two.  Just saying.


Anyway, I think everyone is pretty much entrenched into their positions, so I'll probably lock this thread in a day or two.
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« Reply #54 on: December 18, 2008, 12:56:20 PM »

Wow, that almost read like BASIC programming language. Grin
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« Reply #55 on: December 18, 2008, 01:02:13 PM »

I wanted to apologize again.  I'm sorry.

Conclusions, to tie things back to the original topic:
Ignore button?  Spectacular idea as it is.
Because there's a threat? Yes.
From intelligence / possible points / good ideas?  Not at all.
Then from what?  Contamination, manipulation, lose-lose traps, and bad ideas.
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« Reply #56 on: December 18, 2008, 04:19:43 PM »

The thread analysis was fascinating and useful, and overall pretty neat.

However, I can't leave this part alone:

The problem is that some people hate the concept of someone else disagreeing with them.  So they write posts like this:
   * Contention 1: A is true.
   * Contention 2: If A then B.
   * Conclusion: Therefore, B is true.
   * Supporting Point 1: Contention 1 is true for reason C.
   * Supporting Point 2: Reason C is true because of Reason D.
   * Supporting Point 3: Contention 2 is true because of this citation here.
   * Supporting Point 4: That citation in 3 is repeated by this other good sources.
   * Supporting Point 5: Oh, B is also true for reasons E, F, and G.

The description of the posting style seems to be accurate, but I don't think the supposition about the motivation is necessarily valid.

In MBTI terms, this is an almost textbook description of the natural thought pattern for people of NTP personality types.  They start with an idea and keep naturally following connections in a huge, complex structure that will eventually interconnect everything if nothing else comes up to distract them.  INTPs in particular do this far more easily and more often when there's nobody else there, and the process often shuts down when the INTP feels the presence of others.  (INTPs are also slower than ENTPs to recognize the presence of others.)  This style is a natural way of thinking of two personality types, and for those types, it has nothing to do with fearing disagreement.

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That part, however, does sound somewhat like an attempt to discourage disagreement...
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« Reply #57 on: December 18, 2008, 04:56:34 PM »

The description of the posting style seems to be accurate, but I don't think the supposition about the motivation is necessarily valid.
Fair enough.  People post in that 8-bullet style for other reasons.  (Frankly, people post in the other styles for a variety of reasons).

That said, I stand my critique of the 8-bullet style.  While I understand that some people love learning and determining every Supporting Point, they don't necessarily need to load up all of them in the original post.
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That part, however, does sound somewhat like an attempt to discourage disagreement...
I will encourage you to read the words, and not play "what it sounds like".  That is a bit annoying.

The word "that" refers to the concept where "if you feel that the previous section doesn't exactly match your posting style".   This is all it referred to.   I don't want 18 replies of "Oh, well, I don't post like this, so I don't see why you're bringing this up", and I ask that people don't post that particular line.

I have made no reference to any other form of disagreement, and I'll let my further thoughts on that subject end here.

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« Reply #58 on: December 18, 2008, 06:24:23 PM »

That said, I stand my critique of the 8-bullet style.  While I understand that some people love learning and determining every Supporting Point, they don't necessarily need to load up all of them in the original post.
Yes, "the thread analysis was fascinating and useful, and overall pretty neat."

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That part, however, does sound somewhat like an attempt to discourage disagreement...
I will encourage you to read the words, and not play "what it sounds like".  That is a bit annoying.
Fair enough.  On the emotional state side, I found the motivation assertions to be a bit annoying too.  They seemed unnecessary and out of place in an otherwise brilliant post that seems to be a good compilation of real data.  (Looking at individual points and weighing the validity of each also seems like a very STJ thing to do, so that might be how people think too, rather than being "outright contradictory".)

Still, I acknowledge your explanation of why hostility "will get more mileage" than "wall of text".  Back on the emotional state side, though, that makes me sad.
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« Reply #59 on: December 19, 2008, 05:45:47 PM »

Since it's a neat idea, I've been elsewhere toying with this "wall of text" conversation flow concept.  I don't know if anybody is interested, but this thread isn't locked yet, so just in case anybody might be curious...

Leaving out the negative motivation assumptions...

But its a wall of text.  Someone with experience in the area of D may chime in [...] Someone else who wants to keep the discussion light might make a joke about F. 

Someone who wants to actually try the line-by-line might not be interested in all eight lines, and only replies to B, E, and G.  [...]  And so on.

Of course, there are people who [...] will find a way to invalidate or wrongify C1, C2, Conclusion, SP1, SP2, SP3, SP4, SP5, A, B, C, D, E, F, and G.  [...]  And so you get another wall of text.

I looked around other forums with this in mind, and empirically, this type of flow without the negativity (I indicated where I left things out) turns out to be downright wonderful.  This flow works beautifully elsewhere, and it results in fascinating conversations that are both educational and a lot of fun.  This flow only goes downhill if people throw insults that get echoed more than stopped.  In places where this style works, moderators do step in and tell people to cool it if insults start coming out, but the overall tone of the group makes insults rare to begin with.

Other considerations about the forums where this "wall-of-text flow" works is that (a) they have a high percentage of 30-somethings, (b) they have a high percentage of NTs, or (c) they have an awareness of the MBTI.  Still, there is nothing inherently wrong with this conversation flow by itself.

Finally, I think "walls of text" are actually physically more difficult to read here.  One thing I've noticed in common across the forums where this flow works is that all the default fonts have serifs!  (You have no idea how excited I am about seeing this.  I had questioned the common conventions about serif vs. san-serif fonts, and I've seen people argue that the serif vs san-serif conventions don't apply to computer screens, so seeing that serifs really do make walls of text easier to read is just way cool!  The shape of each of the individual characters is more pleasing here than the counterparts from the other forums too.  Serifs make the fonts less pretty, but they also do make reading easier!)
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