Personality? Or Looks?

[Tsubasa]

I'm gonna say, regardless of what people really prefer, looks always work towards making a good impression.  And that impression goes a long ways in starting and/or maintaining relationships.

[kgHapa]

Why not both? I definitely need to be attracted to the person, but an awesome personality makes them more attractive ;D

[Jerry]

after skimming thru the thread.
I got lost  :P

anyway, I could feel for SukebeStudios because I have and WILL rants about these exact same issues, but I do it with my friends and not random anonymous' on a board. - that opens a can of worms (which it already did) where you guys bicker on different points. I sorta dont get the coffee reference but anyway...

I realize that if you get frustrated with the whole dating 'game' - (oh and I JUST LOST THE GAME) your gonna whine, bitch and complain to the next girl or be the guy constantly venting about these issues... then how does it make you look? Think about it. Take it as a learning experience and MOVE ON. and for gosh sakes DONT COMPARE the new person to old person!!! WORST TURNOFF EVER!  >:(

I do believe in first and (several impressions) - Even people I met at first here or IRL or even at FanimeCon people I had my mixed bag of comments about me. The same goes for meeting a random fanboys/girls on the street.

They dont know you- Not everyone can 'click' the first (few) times people meet up. Some people have that natural charisma and make friends easily - others just got SO MUCH GAME they have to beat back zombies with a big stick. (sorry hot girl zombies on the brain this morning...)

Now I'm ranting and I lost my point but I guess what I'm trying to say is have a good attitude when meeting girls/boys. You cant expect anything out of them especially when you 'want' (you deny it but you should admit it) something from them.

Personally, all I"m good at is making friends.  :) I'll deal with it. When the right girl comes along. I'll just go with the flow. or just randomly get hitched in Vegas.  :P I havent decided yet.

[Glitch]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

[protocol7]

Coffee = Life force

Yes.

[Kaura117]

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

[Glitch]

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

[Kaura117]

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

[Chun]

My input is this: People know when they've met the right person. Going into the whole checklist of actions/words/looks is such a bad approach it's not even funny. Often with the people that ask me for advice or tell me about their concerns, they run in with total set of what they want, and when they want it. Just be friendly, open minded, your usual self. There's no "unbelievable beauty" in this world, only an "amazing beauty" to a group of like-minded attractors.

~Chun

[Jun-Watarase]

Oh ho. A new day, 2 new pages.

Ok, first off, fuck you.

FYI, I do take care of myself. I pride myself on my appearance. Everyday I show up for work, I make DAM sure that I appear in a professional manner! I make damn sure I am clean-shaven, hair tied back, clothes are clean, and that I have no unpleasant odors when I start the workday. So don't you start fucking lecturing me about taking pride in my appearance because I know I do! So forgive me for being fucking cynical about this type of thing! I know I'm not a loser, I work damn hard just to survive on the minimum wage that I earn busting my ass every day! I take pride in myself, and if I didn't, I wouldn't even bother posting a thread like this because I wouldn't give two shits!

HAHAHAHA. The way you're trying to defend yourself only makes you seem worse, and seeing as how you're whining and making every excuse to pin the reasons why you can't get a girl on the opinions of girls that are replying to you! Wow, just wow. First thing to say in that reply to me? "Fuck you." DOES ANYONE NOT SEE THE IRONY IN THAT?

Anyways, you're trying to tell me that doing the essentials... like shaving, dressing for work, cleaning your clothes, and keeping yourself from omitting foul odors is your effort of maintaining your appearance? Yes, at least you aren't a slob, but upholding an appearance is a different thing all together that you spend TIME on doing... I would get into it, and the information would probably serve you a good deal of help. But let's just say, I cringed at "hair tied back".

Ever consider that appearances... aren't your only problem? Because it obviously isn't. Appearances are important, because their part of the first impression like Tsubasa had said. And yes, first impressions ARE very important-- but circumstances and variables determine just how much, of course. Over anything, personality is the most significant aspect of a partner, because that's where the compatibility flourishes. Appearances are important parts of personality as well. It shows their taste, capability, and where they prioritize it.

No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?

So putting "no offense" before you basically call her a slut makes you think thats OK? No wonder you're still single.

OK, the way I talk in a forum, and the way I act in real life are two different things. Do you think I'd actually say that to someone's face? No wonder you're still a moron.

No wonder you're still a moron.

And theres the charming personality women run away from. At this point I'm thinking the problem isn't your looks.

OK, apparently I need to make something very clear for some people. Forums are forums. If you believe without a doubt that what someone posts in a forum is what the person is like in real life...you seriously need to step away from the computer more often. And I know that someone's going use what I just said against me to the tune of, "Look who's talking." The reason I speak this way on the forum is because this is a place to vent my frustrations. The way I am in my own personal life is very different. And if you still think that this is the way I am IRL...then I pray that you don't reproduce...

HAHA OH WOW. If only I was even half as harsh as Pyron, I'd rip you a new one/kicking you in the balls with stilettos. You deserve it. o/

Get a clue. Doesn't fucking matter if it's on the forums or in person-- whatever you post is STILL a part of your character, even if you won't have the balls to say this shit in person. If it didn't matter to you, why the fuck did you make this thread? The only thing yo accomplished was to make a huge display on what a whiny loser you are, and reasons BEYOND shitty appearances to explain why you can't get laid. And so far, the impression you've left here gave negative reasons beyond just not wanting to fuck you.

Seriously. If a girl would ever want to even CONSIDER getting with you... I would pray that you don't reproduce.


Neither Pyron or I are smoking hot model-material, but both him and I get hit on on a regular basis (depending on the circumstances, of course.) In most cases neither of us barely have trouble getting with people we want. And from what I know from living with him, he doesn't care about his appearance too much on most occasions... he just grabs a clean shirt, puts it on, and still manages to look decent. He keeps his hair stylish in the morning. He's lazy about shaving a lot of the time. It's a really lazy routine on normal days... but he doesn't care. And even with that, he'd probably be able to pick up a girl for a threesome. (Which he's too lazy and pinning the responsibility on ME to do. ;__; )

I had this really sweet guy that I'm close friends with that I would see very often after school to have lunch and whatnot. He'd dress in really nice and stylish name-brand clothing, a nice haircut, super expensive frames for his glasses, decent jewelry-- all around really stylish, good taste type of guy... His personality was nice, too. He hit on me the first day I met him, and he'd still flirt with me afterwards (in a friendly way) while knowing I'm in a relationship. But I wasn't interested in him. Even if I were single, I wouldn't have dated him... you know why? Incompatibility, not my type. He did almost everything a young guy should do when letting a girl know she's interested, but I wasn't.

But if I were to choose between that guy, and you, you're faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar at the opposite side of the spectrum.

[Glitch]

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD

[Kaura117]

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD

Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.

[sysadmin]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

Sadly, you are right.  I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people".  :)

[protocol7]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

Sadly, you are right.  I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people".  :)

I just wonder why its not already locked or relocated :)

[Glitch]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

Sadly, you are right.  I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people".  :)

You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD

Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.

So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?

[XpHoBiaX]

I am the great Ice Queen Obey my command! RAWR
Assimilate or DIE! Becuase I am just that awesome.
8)


coughbullshitcoughcoughhack

[Kaura117]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

Sadly, you are right.  I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people".  :)

You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD

Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.

So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?

...

...

Oh! Was that what the topic was about? Whoops!

[Sunara Ishi]

Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.

Sadly, you are right.  I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people".  :)

You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.

Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.

So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"

Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?

...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=

But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD

Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.

So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?

...

...

Oh! Was that what the topic was about? Whoops!

Didn't you know? This thread was really a front for the operation.
Our queen wanted us to find more willing souls and soldiers to join the hive.

Begin the conquest! Conquer earth!

On a serious note, that multiversal network sounds rather interesting.