Quote from: Jun-Watarase on December 14, 2008, 05:20:50 PMYou mentioned how it'd supposedly be better if masturbation is acceptable in society. Are you saying that people have sex in place of masturbation because they're forced to by society?That's a huge leap. It's like someone saying "It'd be nice if I'm allowed to have chocolate cake whenever I want" and you then asking "Are you saying that you want to be force-fed chocolate cake all the time?" "Acceptable" doesn't mean "forced".
QuoteI take it that you've never had a sexual partner, otherwise you wouldn't be saying so god damned stupid.You've just proven lyricaldanichan's point that masturbation is not accepted. The second someone says that masturbation might be equivalent to sex, they're accused of not having had sex or at least not being very good at it. People get socially put down when they say such things. Such attitudes against masturbation are no different from bigotry against homosexuality.
I don't think we know how many people would naturally prefer masturbation over sex if they weren't socially pressured to do so by all the peer pressure asserting that sex is somehow better. I think some people do talk themselves into considering masturbation inferior to sex because they're insecure enough to listen to people who tell them that considering sex and masturbation equivalent is "god damned stupid". If such attitudes against masturbation were gone, we would at least stop people (especially teenagers) from trying to "score" just because they want to prove something. Fixing attitudes would stop the "Emperor's New Clothes" phenomenon. Better yet, social acceptance of masturbation would prevent problems in those who keep doing it because it wasn't really that good for them (and may never been that good for them -- maybe autosexuality is as valid a preference as homosexuality, heterosexuality, and bisexuality), but they're told that it's only because they're doing it "wrong", and it's some amazing holy grail if they do it right, so they do riskier and riskier things (like trying it without condoms) trying to get it "right".