Personally, I have to find someone who would at least accept my otakuness, if not be an otaku themselves. As to the naming kids stuff, I see no problem with someone naming their child Sakura. I've been planning to name my child Aki (when and if I have one) simply cause I love the name and what it means(autumn)...well, that and I knew a Japanese exchange student in high school and that's her name. ^_^