Poll
Question:
Would you rather go out with...
Option 1: ...someone with a hot body?
Option 2: ...someone that makes you laugh?
Option 3: ...can't give an honest answer?
Option 4: ...anyone, because I'm a complete slut?
Ok...I'm putting this poll up because I've honestly gotten fed up with ladies telling me they like guys with a nice personality. Come on ladies, you know that's a lie. If you had a choice between an Otaku that can make you laugh, and someone that looks like Orlando Bloom...you'd go out with Orlando Bloom! Nice guys with average looks or below, don't stand a chance against the really good looking guys out there. So answer the poll honestly...stop trying to kid us nice guys, cause eventually we might stop being so nice.
noones trying to kid you.
any girl worth anything cares about personality over anything else.
Quote from: Lactose on June 06, 2008, 01:46:03 AM
noones trying to kid you.
any girl worth anything cares about personality over anything else.
BWAHAHAHAHA....oh wait...you're serious?? If that were true then how come there's so many really nice guys that end up growing old and dying alone?
Ah yes, I forgot one thing. Guys! Listen up! If you're average looking or below, you CAN get the girls...as long as you have a lot of money. If you're rich, that's the only thing that makes looks irrelevant.
Augh... I hate these sort of threads, but here I go.
Personality is one of, if not THE most important thing about a guy we're attracted to-- but why in god's f*ck would that make appearance irrelevant? It's when losers assume this, they bitch and moan about "Oh, girls only care about looks but they never care about guys who have nice personalities. Wah wah wah." Appearances do matter. They're also PART of personality-- it shows you have style, you can take care of yourself, and uphold a decent appearance.
As for the whole "girls like jerks, not nice guys" type mentality, which is a HUGE pet peeve of mine-- we've reviewed this many times on the forums, here. Don't delve too far into the friends' zone. Make your intentions clear. Don't make yourself look like a spineless wuss. Don't present anything less than honest. Don't take it slow only to let the "jerks" pass you by. Blah blah blah, just put it on loop for me, please.
It's not that all girls want guys with absolute flawless appearances-- but it's not bad to have standards. In most cases, losers aren't appreciated. No one wants to deal with that in a relationship. I'd rather have someone attractive, stylish, AND with a great personality, not to mention, confident enough to not whine about crap like this... but personally, I find personalities the sexiest part of a person I'm attracted to.
Good looks can be great, but they don't mean much at all if the personality is terrible.
A great personality IS great... but it may be a turn off if they don't appeal, aesthetically.
Quote from: Jun-Watarase on June 06, 2008, 02:03:36 AM
Augh... I hate these sort of threads, but here I go.
Personality is one of, if not THE most important thing about a guy we're attracted to-- but why in god's f*ck would that make appearance irrelevant? It's when losers assume this, they bitch and moan about "Oh, girls only care about looks but they never care about guys who have nice personalities. Wah wah wah." Appearances do matter. They're also PART of personality-- it shows you have style, you can take care of yourself, and uphold a decent appearance.
As for the whole "girls like jerks, not nice guys" type mentality, which is a HUGE pet peeve of mine-- we've reviewed this many times on the forums, here. Don't delve too far into the friends' zone. Make your intentions clear. Don't make yourself look like a spineless wuss. Don't present anything less than honest. Don't take it slow only to let the "jerks" pass you by. Blah blah blah, just put it on loop for me, please.
It's not that all girls want guys with absolute flawless appearances-- but it's not bad to have standards. In most cases, losers aren't appreciated. No one wants to deal with that in a relationship. I'd rather have someone attractive, stylish, AND with a great personality, not to mention, confident enough to not whine about crap like this... but personally, I find personalities the sexiest part of a person I'm attracted to.
Good looks can be great, but they don't mean much at all if the personality is terrible.
A great personality IS great... but it may be a turn off if they don't appeal, aesthetically.
Interesting that the first thing you assume when guys say stuff like this...is that they're losers. Also by what you're saying, if you're unattractive, and not even average looking, you're more than likely screwed because that person is not going to get a chance because they're not..."aesthetically appealing."
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 02:09:57 AM
Interesting that the first thing you assume when guys say stuff like this...is that they're losers. Also by what you're saying, if you're unattractive, and not even average looking, you're more than likely screwed because that person is not going to get a chance because they're not..."aesthetically appealing."
Are you serious? Honestly, my last post was very sugar-coated... and had hints of some advice, but here we go again.
For one thing, I never connected poor looks -> losers. What makes the loser are people who whine about this crap, while being unwilling to try to even attempt to improve themselves. If anyone had the right information, and the will to make the effort-- anyone can seem somewhat aesthetically pleasing in comparison to when they DON'T CARE AT ALL. But yes. As for me "assuming when guys say stuff like this" being losers... I do. Because only losers would complain about this sort of crap and speak of it in the tone you put it in.
Like this for example:
QuoteBWAHAHAHAHA....oh wait...you're serious?? If that were true then how come there's so many really nice guys that end up growing old and dying alone?
Ah yes, I forgot one thing. Guys! Listen up! If you're average looking or below, you CAN get the girls...as long as you have a lot of money. If you're rich, that's the only thing that makes looks irrelevant.
How pathetic is that? Seriously, to reply to her that way... as generalized and sugarcoated as her post was, you seriously deserve a kick to the balls. Just because YOU'RE a loser and can't get with girls, doesn't mean it's the girls' fault and that the only way to their heart is to offer them superficial nothings like money and looking like god damned Orlando Bloom.
But it doesn't mean looks and money aren't important... but you know what makes them important? Because it makes you seem like YOU GIVE A DAMN, and that you're willing to actually TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. That means, maintaining your life financially and maintaining a decent appearance. As my friend had said to me, most girls we both know aren't that superficial. I, myself, have pretty realistic standards... If a guy can't even manage to have a stable life enough to maintain his money and appearance, why would I want to be in a relationship with him? He obviously can't take care of himself, if that were the case.
Though, ask any girl you meet. The majority will agree that looks aren't everything-- it's a big plus if they do happen to be attractive, but if it was purely physical attraction and nothing else, chances are, they wouldn't be happy with the relationship.
What makes you think any girl would be dong something WRONG to not want to date someone with your mentality? Why would I, or any other girl, want to deal with that?
Ok, first off, fuck you.
FYI, I do take care of myself. I pride myself on my appearance. Everyday I show up for work, I make DAM sure that I appear in a professional manner! I make damn sure I am clean-shaven, hair tied back, clothes are clean, and that I have no unpleasant odors when I start the workday. So don't you start fucking lecturing me about taking pride in my appearance because I know I do! So forgive me for being fucking cynical about this type of thing! I know I'm not a loser, I work damn hard just to survive on the minimum wage that I earn busting my ass every day! I take pride in myself, and if I didn't, I wouldn't even bother posting a thread like this because I wouldn't give two shits!
How come it's always "Guys, you can get the ladies." If men are suppose to be men, why do I know so many awesome and single women? I've done my share of being the aggressive, and I use to change my boyfriend like I change my socks. I've dated young, old, hot, ugly, nerd, jock, etc. Based on my life experiences, lasting relationships seem to be based on compatibility.
Come on now, saying 'it's a lie' is like us saying "we girls know that all guys want a piece of ass."
You make it sound like you have issues with finding a woman. I can totally understand being frustrated with finding a suitable significant other, but you just sound angry. @_o
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 02:58:00 AM
How come it's always "Guys, you can get the ladies." If men are suppose to be men, why do I know so many awesome and single women? I've done my share of being the aggressive, and I use to change my boyfriend like I change my socks. I've dated young, old, hot, ugly, nerd, jock, etc. Based on my life experiences, lasting relationships seem to be based on compatibility.
Come on now, saying 'it's a lie' is like us saying "we girls know that all guys want a piece of ass."
You make it sound like you have issues with finding a woman. I can totally understand being frustrated with finding a suitable significant other, but you just sound angry. @_o
Sounds like you have a new life experience every morning, tell me when you have one for a Anime/Star Wars/Zombie/Zeonist Fan Boy one.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:02:58 AM
Sounds like you have a new life experience every morning, tell me when you have one for a Anime/Star Wars/Zombie/Zeonist Fan Boy one.
WHICH ONE? I dated a DnD mastermind, Star Trek nerd, and a guy who'd rather watch zombie/horror movies than do 'other things' with me.
I like to keep my options open, since I don't want to look like I'm singling out one type of group that I won't date. My parents tell me all the time that you always end up marrying the last person you'd think you would.
Variety is the spice of life!!!
Actually punky loves zombies.
But either way, yes girls like hot guys. Just like guys like hot girls. The guy who says he never checked out a smoking chick is lying through his teeth. Personally the way I see it, the Orlando Bloom types are for booty calls and the otaku nerds are for taking home to daddy.
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 02:58:00 AM
I've done my share of being the aggressive, and I use to change my boyfriend like I change my socks. I've dated young, old, hot, ugly, nerd, jock, etc. Based on my life experiences, lasting relationships seem to be based on compatibility.
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:07:34 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:02:58 AM
Sounds like you have a new life experience every morning, tell me when you have one for a Anime/Star Wars/Zombie/Zeonist Fan Boy one.
WHICH ONE? I dated a DnD mastermind, Star Trek nerd, and a guy who'd rather watch zombie/horror movies than do 'other things' with me.
I like to keep my options open, since I don't want to look like I'm singling out one type of group that I won't date. My parents tell me all the time that you always end up marrying the last person you'd think you would.
Variety is the spice of life!!!
First off DnD never tryed it never will, Star Wars kicks Star Treks ass every hour on the hour, and only Zombie films anyother type of horror film I don't enjoy, and if you have coffee with me you'll find out that I am the LAST person that you folks told you about, NAW I'm kidding I've been told that I am interesting and very expressive in my voice. At least I hope they meant that in a good way...
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:11:18 AM
Actually punky loves zombies.
But either way, yes girls like hot guys. Just like guys like hot girls. The guy who says he never checked out a smoking chick is lying through his teeth. Personally the way I see it, the Orlando Bloom types are for booty calls and the otaku nerds are for taking home to daddy.
*Raises hands* Guilty! But never got any further than that.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:11:18 AM
Actually punky loves zombies.
But either way, yes girls like hot guys. Just like guys like hot girls. The guy who says he never checked out a smoking chick is lying through his teeth. Personally the way I see it, the Orlando Bloom types are for booty calls and the otaku nerds are for taking home to daddy.
Um, when you say "guy who never checked out a smoking chick," I assume you're referring to me, due to the fact that I was the only guy posting, everyone else were female. And if that's the case...WTF are you talking about? I never said I didn't check out a smoking chick.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:12:21 AM
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
So putting "no offense" before you basically call her a slut makes you think thats OK? No wonder you're still single.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:12:21 AM
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
No offense? Riiiight. Don't assume too much. I think I have more control over myself than to hit whatever comes my way.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:19:27 AM
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:12:21 AM
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
So putting "no offense" before you basically call her a slut makes you think thats OK? No wonder you're still single.
OK, the way I talk in a forum, and the way I act in real life are two different things. Do you think I'd actually say that to someone's face? No wonder you're still a moron.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:23:41 AM
No wonder you're still a moron.
And theres the charming personality women run away from. At this point I'm thinking the problem isn't your looks.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:15:10 AM
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:07:34 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:02:58 AM
Sounds like you have a new life experience every morning, tell me when you have one for a Anime/Star Wars/Zombie/Zeonist Fan Boy one.
WHICH ONE? I dated a DnD mastermind, Star Trek nerd, and a guy who'd rather watch zombie/horror movies than do 'other things' with me.
I like to keep my options open, since I don't want to look like I'm singling out one type of group that I won't date. My parents tell me all the time that you always end up marrying the last person you'd think you would.
Variety is the spice of life!!!
First off DnD never tryed it never will, Star Wars kicks Star Treks ass every hour on the hour, and only Zombie films anyother type of horror film I don't enjoy, and if you have coffee with me you'll find out that I am the LAST person that you folks told you about, NAW I'm kidding I've been told that I am interesting and very expressive in my voice. At least I hope they meant that in a good way...
I enjoyed Dnd, when I was with a good RP'ing group, but I'd still rather play final fantasy. DnD is too slow of a game for me.
I agree, Star Wars>Star Trek. That guy liked the writing of the ST books better, beats me why. Most of those books were mind-numbingly boring, but I like the old classic sci/fi writers so I'm biast. I'm really particular about horror movies, but I prefer the psychological horror ones anyday.
Coffee = Life force
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:29:21 AM
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:23:41 AM
No wonder you're still a moron.
And theres the charming personality women run away from. At this point I'm thinking the problem isn't your looks.
Ah...thank you for proving my point by ignoring the first half of my statement which you conveniently left out of your post.
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:30:25 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:15:10 AM
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:07:34 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:02:58 AM
Sounds like you have a new life experience every morning, tell me when you have one for a Anime/Star Wars/Zombie/Zeonist Fan Boy one.
WHICH ONE? I dated a DnD mastermind, Star Trek nerd, and a guy who'd rather watch zombie/horror movies than do 'other things' with me.
I like to keep my options open, since I don't want to look like I'm singling out one type of group that I won't date. My parents tell me all the time that you always end up marrying the last person you'd think you would.
Variety is the spice of life!!!
First off DnD never tryed it never will, Star Wars kicks Star Treks ass every hour on the hour, and only Zombie films anyother type of horror film I don't enjoy, and if you have coffee with me you'll find out that I am the LAST person that you folks told you about, NAW I'm kidding I've been told that I am interesting and very expressive in my voice. At least I hope they meant that in a good way...
I enjoyed Dnd, when I was with a good RP'ing group, but I'd still rather play final fantasy. DnD is too slow of a game for me.
I agree, Star Wars>Star Trek. That guy liked the writing of the ST books better, beats me why. Most of those books were mind-numbingly boring, but I like the old classic sci/fi writers so I'm biast. I'm really particular about horror movies, but I prefer the psychological horror ones anyday.
Coffee = Life force
Well really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AM
Well really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
Chai tea is the gods nectar.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:37:12 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AM
Well really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
Chai tea is the gods nectar.
and it tastes kinda like gingerbread ta boot!
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:40:51 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AM
Well really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
Chai tea is the gods nectar.
and it tastes kinda like gingerbread ta boot!
Thats why I love it. Gingerbread is my favorite cookie.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:23:41 AM
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Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:12:21 AM
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
So putting "no offense" before you basically call her a slut makes you think thats OK? No wonder you're still single.
OK, the way I talk in a forum, and the way I act in real life are two different things. Do you think I'd actually say that to someone's face? No wonder you're still a moron.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:29:21 AM
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:23:41 AM
No wonder you're still a moron.
And theres the charming personality women run away from. At this point I'm thinking the problem isn't your looks.
OK, apparently I need to make something very clear for some people. Forums are forums. If you believe without a doubt that what someone posts in a forum is what the person is like in real life...you seriously need to step away from the computer more often. And I know that someone's going use what I just said against me to the tune of, "Look who's talking." The reason I speak this way on the forum is because this is a place to vent my frustrations. The way I am in my own personal life is very different. And if you still think that this is the way I am IRL...then I pray that you don't reproduce...
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:41:13 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:45:36 AM
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:41:13 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Yeah my university has a Starbucks on campus. The chai tempts me every day.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:47:33 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Yeah my university has a Starbucks on campus. The chai tempts me every day.
Yeah mine is not really a starbucks it has the cups and the stuff to make it but that's just it. One Chai tea with 2% Milk please I'd say and that is $4.00!
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:50:13 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Yeah my university has a Starbucks on campus. The chai tempts me every day.
Yeah mine is not really a starbucks it has the cups and the stuff to make it but that's just it. One Chai tea with 2% Milk please I'd say and that is $4.00!
I guess I should have changed the subject of the thread.
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Yeah my university has a Starbucks on campus. The chai tempts me every day.
Yeah mine is not really a starbucks it has the cups and the stuff to make it but that's just it. One Chai tea with 2% Milk please I'd say and that is $4.00!
I have the stuff to make it at home I just never think about it until the Starbucks sign reminds me heh. Then I crave it till I give in and pay out the nose for a cup.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:53:26 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Yeah my university has a Starbucks on campus. The chai tempts me every day.
Yeah mine is not really a starbucks it has the cups and the stuff to make it but that's just it. One Chai tea with 2% Milk please I'd say and that is $4.00!
I have the stuff to make it at home I just never think about it until the Starbucks sign reminds me heh. Then I crave it till I give in and pay out the nose for a cup.
I as well could make it, but it would not taste as good PLUS I need the tools to make it.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:45:36 AM
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 03:41:13 AM
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Art teachers don't like me because I'm a smart mouth. D= They tolerate me in theatre though. @_o
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:44:42 AM
OK, apparently I need to make something very clear for some people. Forums are forums. If you believe without a doubt that what someone posts in a forum is what the person is like in real life...you seriously need to step away from the computer more often. And I know that someone's going use what I just said against me to the tune of, "Look who's talking." The reason I speak this way on the forum is because this is a place to vent my frustrations. The way I am in my own personal life is very different. And if you still think that this is the way I am IRL...then I pray that you don't reproduce...
I understand that you want to vent, since we all need to do that once in a while. I do mine on LJ most of the time. But I don't understand why there's so much anger. I get really frustrated about the 'dating' situation of the city I live in (girls out-number guys), but I can't do much about it.
I type slow lol.
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 03:33:54 AMWell really I never did like coffee, I just say it cause it sounds better that Chai Tea in my opinion.
More for me! =B I've never tried chai tea. ~How OT lol. XD
Oh it's good, gives a good kick before Art Class.
Art teachers don't like me because I'm a smart mouth. D= They tolerate me in theatre though. @_o
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:07:58 AM
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
I can't draw to save my life. D=
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:07:58 AM
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
I can't draw to save my life. D=
Just draw and call it Da-daism
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 01:33:11 AM
Ok...I'm putting this poll up because I've honestly gotten fed up with ladies telling me they like guys with a nice personality. Come on ladies, you know that's a lie. If you had a choice between an Otaku that can make you laugh, and someone that looks like Orlando Bloom...you'd go out with Orlando Bloom! Nice guys with average looks or below, don't stand a chance against the really good looking guys out there. So answer the poll honestly...stop trying to kid us nice guys, cause eventually we might stop being so nice.
You know... that all depends on the person's definition of what they think is hot.
And probably for a lot of us its a combination of looks and personality.
Please... you think people choose to be with someone without liking something about their appearance? Now, that's a lie if you think otherwise.
I think we know why you're not chosen if you think so highly of us; it seems to you, we are sluts that'd go out with whatever guy looks good. Go back to your hole if you can't play nice. And reviewing previous posts, it seems exactly that case. So I pick the 5th poll option: "This poll is sexier and has a better personality than you."
I think a lot of "otaku" guys have good looks but because I am so picky personality wise, I'd probably date very few. And I actually have to have those kind of feelings for the guy; I can't date someone if I feel like they are a brother, nephew, etc. to me. There are very few guys I'd consider for those reasons alone. And forget just looks; please... like us "otaku" women would go for someone that doesn't share something of our likes with us.
And like women, most guys can be made to look good with hair-styling, make-up, etc.
Jerks and whinny brats are thrown out the window first by the way. Someone nice that has confidence in themselves is way better. And confident, clean eccentrics are way better. As long as they aren't insane-insane.
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:07:58 AM
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
I can't draw to save my life. D=
Just draw and call it Da-daism
haha. dada is fun. XD
Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:30:04 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:07:58 AM
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
I can't draw to save my life. D=
Just draw and call it Da-daism
That sounds like something I should find in wikipedia. XD
Quote from: Punkbuster on June 06, 2008, 05:40:31 AM
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Quote from: Mister_E on June 06, 2008, 04:07:58 AM
Never did like Theatre, but art is just fine I just draw whatever I am listening to on my iPod and it's all good.
I can't draw to save my life. D=
Just draw and call it Da-daism
That sounds like something I should find in wikipedia. XD
Its an art movement. There was also some theater and poetry involved. Its quite cool.
The word itself it supposed to mean nonsense.
And it does have that sort of feel but some of the stuff does have a point; a lot were statements on society.
You should look it up.
I'm gonna say, regardless of what people really prefer, looks always work towards making a good impression. And that impression goes a long ways in starting and/or maintaining relationships.
Why not both? I definitely need to be attracted to the person, but an awesome personality makes them more attractive ;D
after skimming thru the thread.
I got lost :P
anyway, I could feel for SukebeStudios because I have and WILL rants about these exact same issues, but I do it with my friends and not random anonymous' on a board. - that opens a can of worms (which it already did) where you guys bicker on different points. I sorta dont get the coffee reference but anyway...
I realize that if you get frustrated with the whole dating 'game' - (oh and I JUST LOST THE GAME) your gonna whine, bitch and complain to the next girl or be the guy constantly venting about these issues... then how does it make you look? Think about it. Take it as a learning experience and MOVE ON. and for gosh sakes DONT COMPARE the new person to old person!!! WORST TURNOFF EVER! >:(
I do believe in first and (several impressions) - Even people I met at first here or IRL or even at FanimeCon people I had my mixed bag of comments about me. The same goes for meeting a random fanboys/girls on the street.
They dont know you- Not everyone can 'click' the first (few) times people meet up. Some people have that natural charisma and make friends easily - others just got SO MUCH GAME they have to beat back zombies with a big stick. (sorry hot girl zombies on the brain this morning...)
Now I'm ranting and I lost my point but I guess what I'm trying to say is have a good attitude when meeting girls/boys. You cant expect anything out of them especially when you 'want' (you deny it but you should admit it) something from them.
Personally, all I"m good at is making friends. :) I'll deal with it. When the right girl comes along. I'll just go with the flow. or just randomly get hitched in Vegas. :P I havent decided yet.
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...
I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
My input is this: People know when they've met the right person. Going into the whole checklist of actions/words/looks is such a bad approach it's not even funny. Often with the people that ask me for advice or tell me about their concerns, they run in with total set of what they want, and when they want it. Just be friendly, open minded, your usual self. There's no "unbelievable beauty" in this world, only an "amazing beauty" to a group of like-minded attractors.
~Chun
Oh ho. A new day, 2 new pages.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 02:35:22 AM
Ok, first off, fuck you.
FYI, I do take care of myself. I pride myself on my appearance. Everyday I show up for work, I make DAM sure that I appear in a professional manner! I make damn sure I am clean-shaven, hair tied back, clothes are clean, and that I have no unpleasant odors when I start the workday. So don't you start fucking lecturing me about taking pride in my appearance because I know I do! So forgive me for being fucking cynical about this type of thing! I know I'm not a loser, I work damn hard just to survive on the minimum wage that I earn busting my ass every day! I take pride in myself, and if I didn't, I wouldn't even bother posting a thread like this because I wouldn't give two shits!
HAHAHAHA. The way you're trying to defend yourself only makes you seem worse, and seeing as how you're whining and making every excuse to pin the reasons why you can't get a girl on the opinions of girls that are replying to you! Wow, just wow. First thing to say in that reply to me? "Fuck you." DOES ANYONE NOT SEE THE IRONY IN THAT?
Anyways, you're trying to tell me that doing the essentials... like shaving, dressing for work, cleaning your clothes, and keeping yourself from omitting foul odors is your effort of maintaining your appearance? Yes, at least you aren't a slob, but upholding an appearance is a different thing all together that you spend TIME on doing... I would get into it, and the information would probably serve you a good deal of help. But let's just say, I cringed at "hair tied back".
Ever consider that appearances... aren't your only problem? Because it obviously isn't. Appearances are important, because their part of the first impression like Tsubasa had said. And yes, first impressions ARE very important-- but circumstances and variables determine just how much, of course. Over anything, personality is the most significant aspect of a partner, because that's where the compatibility flourishes. Appearances are important parts of personality as well. It shows their taste, capability, and where they prioritize it.
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:44:42 AM
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Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:12:21 AM
No offense, but how come you didn't vote for Option 4?
So putting "no offense" before you basically call her a slut makes you think thats OK? No wonder you're still single.
OK, the way I talk in a forum, and the way I act in real life are two different things. Do you think I'd actually say that to someone's face? No wonder you're still a moron.
Quote from: Evelle on June 06, 2008, 03:29:21 AM
Quote from: SukebeStudios on June 06, 2008, 03:23:41 AM
No wonder you're still a moron.
And theres the charming personality women run away from. At this point I'm thinking the problem isn't your looks.
OK, apparently I need to make something very clear for some people. Forums are forums. If you believe without a doubt that what someone posts in a forum is what the person is like in real life...you seriously need to step away from the computer more often. And I know that someone's going use what I just said against me to the tune of, "Look who's talking." The reason I speak this way on the forum is because this is a place to vent my frustrations. The way I am in my own personal life is very different. And if you still think that this is the way I am IRL...then I pray that you don't reproduce...
HAHA OH WOW. If only I was even half as harsh as Pyron, I'd rip you a new one/kicking you in the balls with stilettos. You deserve it. o/
Get a clue. Doesn't fucking matter if it's on the forums or in person-- whatever you post is STILL a part of your character, even if you won't have the balls to say this shit in person. If it didn't matter to you, why the fuck did you make this thread? The only thing yo accomplished was to make a huge display on what a whiny loser you are, and reasons BEYOND shitty appearances to explain why you can't get laid. And so far, the impression you've left here gave negative reasons beyond just not wanting to fuck you.
Seriously. If a girl would ever want to even CONSIDER getting with you... I would pray that you don't reproduce.
Neither Pyron or I are smoking hot model-material, but both him and I get hit on on a regular basis (depending on the circumstances, of course.) In most cases neither of us barely have trouble getting with people we want. And from what I know from living with him, he doesn't care about his appearance too much on most occasions... he just grabs a clean shirt, puts it on, and still manages to look decent. He keeps his hair stylish in the morning. He's lazy about shaving a lot of the time. It's a really lazy routine on normal days... but he doesn't care. And even with that, he'd probably be able to pick up a girl for a threesome. (Which he's too lazy and pinning the responsibility on ME to do. ;__; )
I had this really sweet guy that I'm close friends with that I would see very often after school to have lunch and whatnot. He'd dress in really nice and stylish name-brand clothing, a nice haircut, super expensive frames for his glasses, decent jewelry-- all around really stylish, good taste type of guy... His personality was nice, too. He hit on me the first day I met him, and he'd still flirt with me afterwards (in a friendly way) while knowing I'm in a relationship. But I wasn't interested in him. Even if I were single, I wouldn't have dated him... you know why? Incompatibility, not my type. He did almost everything a young guy should do when letting a girl know she's interested, but I wasn't.
But if I were to choose between that guy, and you, you're faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar at the opposite side of the spectrum.
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:42:33 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:57:59 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:42:33 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD
Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:03:44 AM
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Sadly, you are right. I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people". :)
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Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:03:44 AM
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Sadly, you are right. I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people". :)
I just wonder why its not already locked or relocated :)
Quote from: sysadmin on June 06, 2008, 11:31:20 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:03:44 AM
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Sadly, you are right. I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people". :)
You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 11:05:00 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:57:59 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:42:33 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD
Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.
So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?
I am the great Ice Queen Obey my command! RAWR
Assimilate or DIE! Becuase I am just that awesome.
8)
coughbullshitcoughcoughhack
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 11:42:25 AM
Quote from: sysadmin on June 06, 2008, 11:31:20 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:03:44 AM
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Sadly, you are right. I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people". :)
You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 11:05:00 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:57:59 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:42:33 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD
Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.
So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?
...
...
Oh! Was that what the topic was about? Whoops!
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 12:21:13 PM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 11:42:25 AM
Quote from: sysadmin on June 06, 2008, 11:31:20 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:03:44 AM
Yeah, these type of thread will probably never stop being made.
Sadly, you are right. I'd like to have a solution, but my instincts can only suggest "ban people". :)
You could put up a sticky post that says;
Warning: All unthought out,stupid posts and one dimensional arguments may be subject to mockery and crude humor. Idiot descrition advised.
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 11:05:00 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:57:59 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:42:33 AM
Quote from: Glitch on June 06, 2008, 10:41:55 AM
Quote from: Kaura117 on June 06, 2008, 10:29:37 AM
Pfhah. "Nice" personality? What we have here is a failure to set a definitive outline for the topic. How does the individual define "nice?" Or "attractive?" When girls talk about "nice" guys, they're talking about a hypothetical individual that fits their personal criteria of emotional compatibility- which, because they're individuals, and not some creepy hivemind monolithic collective entity, is guaranteed to differ in some small and large ways from your own ideal of what a nice guy is.
So next time a girl tells you she wants to date a guy with a "nice" personality, your task is to ask "what do you mean by that?!"
Are you implying all women don't take orders from a queen who lives in a cube floating in space?
...I wanna live in a floating space cube kingdom! D=
But then Captain Picard and the rest of the enterprise crew will wipe us out.
...plus joining the collective means we will only date people because of their looks. XD
Bah. The Borg have all that processing power on-hand, and they wasted it all on outdated 18th-century imperialistic expansionist policies. I'd usurp the queen, consolidate the Borg's resources, establish a few billion Dyson swarms of computronium around long-lived stars, and begin Project Ark. With luck, I'll have cracked the underlying physical laws of the universe and established a thriving multiversal network before the heat death of THIS universe sets in.
So that will that solve all our dating problems for everyone?
...
...
Oh! Was that what the topic was about? Whoops!
Didn't you know? This thread was really a front for the operation.
Our queen wanted us to find more willing souls and soldiers to join the hive.
Begin the conquest! Conquer earth!
On a serious note, that multiversal network sounds rather interesting.