8 things you shouldnt do to a girl

[DemonLordZabuza]

Haha, wow I saw this and just had to read it.

http://men.msn.com/articlemh.aspx?cp-documentid=6804752&page=%20%20%20%20%20%201

I'll be honest I've done some of those things before.

Well you all enjoy

[Makou]

Time to paint a line where I want it!
1) Ask her how heavy she is.
2) Ask her when was the last time she smoked canned dope.
3) Ogle her finely-designed pants pockets.
4) Take her out to a insanely rich couples' place.
5) Take her out, as in K.O.
6) Drag in a dead cat.
7) Drag in a living mouse.
8) Talk to her about your future mother-in-law.

You sure have a sexy/hot/expensive/lovely dog/cat/mouse/dad/mom/sister/brother/cousin!
DRESS TO IMPRESS!
24/7, guuuurl, I'm out with my Eskimo t-shirt and D-dally dog J-tune jeans.
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Joking, of course. Interesting link there, OP.

[Makou]

dbl post. Sorry.

[slimchance]

My boyfriend has never done any of those things in the article... phewwwww..... the thing i hate the most is when they ask How much it is... my ex did all those things... no wonder he is my ex...hahahhahaha

[Jun-Watarase]

Honestly, if my boyfriend had done those things... I wouldn't care. The only things I'd actually mind are #5 and #7, whereas #7 is situational and I could understand if he's tired or not in the mood etc... It's all dependent on what the relationship is there for. If the chick is going to have the impression that they're going to be engaged and married for the rest of their lives, such things might be more inclined to bother her. Blah blah blah, here we go.

#1 You don't pick up after yourself at our place.

As long as you're not a slob to the extent that it gets in my way or creates foul odors, I don't really care. If it's something small, no problem of going out of my way to throw a can of soda into the recycling bin. He'd do the same for me.

#2 You ask how much our new haircut or handbag costs...

Depending on the situation, it could be annoying-- if you use it as something to point out and make us feel guilty for buying it, yes. It's very annoying. But thankfully, in most situations where I'd be asked, it'd be out of curiosity and not concern.

#3 You talk to us as if we're one of the guys.

I'm used to this and am okay with it. It means he treats me as an equal in terms of the way he talks to me. A lot of girls appreciate this. We girls already get tons of special treatment for other occasions as it is.

#4 You speak of the future vaguely.

Future is always a concern, but if it's too distant, it's not even worth talking about right now. I talk about my future with my boyfriends a lot, in terms of the relationship, but I can't blame it for being vague. Th future is vague, itself. Not much to say there, other than have a cute conversation on what we might HOPE the future to have.

#5 You stop trying.

THIS... is about the biggest thing in a relationship that would annoy me when it'd happen. For guys to stop trying, once they're comfortable with the relationship. I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE this. It makes us feel valueless and not worth trying for, even for someone that supposedly loves us. It's not that I want to push them to go out of their way to do things all the time, but it doesn't mean they should stop doing everything altogether and not caring.

#6 You blatantly look at porn.

Whatever. If it's good porn, I'll watch with him. But porn doesn't seem to be necessary, these days.

#7 You turn down sex.

Depends. If he's too tired or not in the mood, it may be just timing. Doesn't mean he doesn't love me if we don't have sex, but it is disappointing for that one moment. As long as it doesn't keep happening over and over for weeks on end, it's forgivable.

#8 You ask us out via text.

Why not? Texting is quick, simple, and easy. It may not be as sweet and personal as a phone call, but who cares. Tons of people get intimate and connect well over instant messaging, which had been considered too impersonal way back when. Texting is no problemo.

[Steve.Young]

I asked out a girl on aim once, true story.

Interesting article. Gotta send that to some of my friends, cause I know they have done some of those things before.

[PyronIkari]

Article is kinda crappy...

Most of them are general tings you don't do... ever. The others are just kinda dependent on the girl.

[slimchance]

I don't think the article is crappy or too general.  I think most of the things in the article are true.  Sometimes guys do those things but they do not know that it is annoying. 
The thing I hate the most about guy is they stop trying.  Once the girl becomes their girlfriends or wives, they just stop to impress the girls. I know this is not true to all guys but some guys do those things.... 

It is really rare for girls to stop trying after having a boyfriend.  Sometimes I think girls try even harder after they have a boyfriend. 

Since my boyfriend and I start dating, we always text.  I think I was ok with this because I am not a good person to talk in a normal conversation; however, sometimes I still call him and he sounds really happy when he hear my voices.

[DemonLordZabuza]

If I have learned something from all my years of being around women is this, no two girls are the same.  So yes this reasons depend on the girl who you are dating, but its a good start for people who dont know what they are doing  ;D

[mDuo13]

I'm going to have to agree with Mikey here. Everything on this list is either very subjective, or something that works in reverse. Or both. Some girls like being talked to as "one of the guys". And some guys get annoyed at their girlfriend's lack of hygiene. And please, "stop trying" - that's a "duh" that both sides need to follow.

The one that cracks me up is "Don't turn down sex," though. I think most guys would (justifiably) respond to a demand like this with, "You first."

[Jun-Watarase]

The one that cracks me up is "Don't turn down sex," though. I think most guys would (justifiably) respond to a demand like this with, "You first."

Hahahahaha.

As for it being subjective, it's just really cliche. There are cases where these are guidelines that GIRLS should also follow. And I don't think anyone actually leaves toenail clippings in and hair in their soap. Er... at least, I sure hope not.

[JTchinoy]

This same article was in my men's health magazine like 2 months ago. *shrug*
Like mikey said, these are all fairly common sense things.

[DemonLordZabuza]

If is called common sense, how come so few have it?

[jazmatazz]

#5 You stop trying.[/b]

THIS... is about the biggest thing in a relationship that would annoy me when it'd happen. For guys to stop trying, once they're comfortable with the relationship. I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE this. It makes us feel valueless and not worth trying for, even for someone that supposedly loves us. It's not that I want to push them to go out of their way to do things all the time, but it doesn't mean they should stop doing everything altogether and not caring.

Amen, sister. |:

[DemonLordZabuza]

In defense to us guys, it is not always because we get comfortable that we stop trying.  But rather for some of us we stop because we feel it is unappreciated.  It isnt always our fault, at times you get to a point where you are expecting it, and it doesnt work that way.  So appreciate the little tries we do and we will continue doing them :D

[Jun-Watarase]

This same article was in my men's health magazine like 2 months ago. *shrug*
Like mikey said, these are all fairly common sense things.

Rofl. Men's health magazine. : P

In defense to us guys, it is not always because we get comfortable that we stop trying.  But rather for some of us we stop because we feel it is unappreciated.  It isnt always our fault, at times you get to a point where you are expecting it, and it doesnt work that way.  So appreciate the little tries we do and we will continue doing them :D

Untrue. Something like this can't possibly apply to every situation where someone fails to continue trying in the relationship. Tons of girls and guys alike going through that are willing to appreciate what their lover does for them-- a good portion of them just stop trying BECAUSE they're comfortable and feel that they don't need to do anything after getting their "catch" and losing the need to impress them.

Under appriecating someone's effort is a whole other problem.

[Sunara Ishi]

X.x; None of that is really relevant other than maybe #3... >.>;
I admit it can be and on and off annoyance... >.>;
Its weird when you want to be treated that way but don't want to be treated that way. X.x;

Am I the only one that thought she was using the article to rant towards her "other"?

[DemonLordZabuza]

This same article was in my men's health magazine like 2 months ago. *shrug*
Like mikey said, these are all fairly common sense things.

Rofl. Men's health magazine. : P

In defense to us guys, it is not always because we get comfortable that we stop trying.  But rather for some of us we stop because we feel it is unappreciated.  It isnt always our fault, at times you get to a point where you are expecting it, and it doesnt work that way.  So appreciate the little tries we do and we will continue doing them :D

Untrue. Something like this can't possibly apply to every situation where someone fails to continue trying in the relationship. Tons of girls and guys alike going through that are willing to appreciate what their lover does for them-- a good portion of them just stop trying BECAUSE they're comfortable and feel that they don't need to do anything after getting their "catch" and losing the need to impress them.

Under appriecating someone's effort is a whole other problem.

haha no no no, dont get me wrong this isnt the reason why every guy stops trying in a relationship.  I was just saying that some guys have stopped trying because of the under appreciation.  Of course there are the guys who stop trying because they got comfortable, but thats not all of them

[Kazuko]

Oh BS guys should never stop trying =\ I appreciated my guy so much that even still he dosent try

so ronery ;_;

[JTchinoy]

If is called common sense, how come so few have it?

cuz common sense seems like a diminishing commodity in today's society.